Cathy Gildiner's Visit

After speaking with Cathy Gildiner about what goes on behind the scenes when writing a memoir, it became clear that writing is more than a career or hobby, it is a way of life. In her memoir, Ms. Gildiner does not censor her life when putting it on paper, even when asked to by her publishing company and editor. "After The Falls" shows the highs and lows of her life, which creates an intimate feel for the reader. In fact, as she stated, it would be a shame to leave anything out because the significance of some events in her life would be lost. It takes courage to publish a memoir, especially when a "gang-bang" (according to Ms. Gildiner, it was not a rape because they had her consent) and affair have taken place. It was somewhat surreal talking to the person whose life I had been reading about for weeks. Her life had been drastically changed in this memoir multiple times and it was very fascinating being able to ask her about these events. Cathy Gildiner has a life that reads like fiction and it was a pleasure talking to her in person. I only have one question after hearing her speak and it is quite simple: how can I aspire to have a colourful life like hers?